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        <title>don&#39;t matter where you&#39;re from. a jerk is still a jerk.</title>   
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        <p><span style="font-size: 0.80em">for as long as i can remember, i have always wanted to have a place of my </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">own.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> this </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">november</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">, roughly 17 years on, i finally got my chance and took </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">it.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> late bloomer, yeah i know </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">haha</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">.  still i think </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">i&#39;ve</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> been prepared for it mentally, at least i thought i was.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span><div style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 0.80em">	until the neighbors from hell made their presence known...</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span></div><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">a bit dramatic yeah, but you might say the same thing if you had to put up with the same </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">thing.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> true enough this doesn&#39;t happen every day but it happens often, if </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">i&#39;m</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> lucky, at most three times a </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">week.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> blasting their music to the point that i could clearly hear the words to some dance version of la </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">isla</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">bonita.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> this happened today, by the </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">way.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> i know that was the name of the song because that&#39;s how loud it was, loud enough to hear the lyrics pretty clearly and those words going on and </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">on.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> usually its some generic </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">techno</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> thing, either way they play their music way too loud and sometimes at the worst times, once they did that at 3 </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">a.m.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">i&#160;say&#160;they&#160;because </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">the&#160;guy&#160;had&#160;his&#160;own&#160;apartment,&#160;same&#160;building,&#160;then&#160;got&#160;together&#160;with&#160;his&#160;current&#160;girl&#160;and&#160;moved&#160;into&#160;her&#160;place,&#160;about&#160;the&#160;time&#160;the&#160;noise&#160;problems&#160;started,&#160;according&#160;to&#160;the&#160;landlord. </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">it&#39;s bad enough that the walls are not that thick or soundproofed at all, the neighbors always have to talk loudly and more so when they fight or have friends </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">over.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> whoever says i can get out of the situation easily enough obviously </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">hasn&#39;t</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> rented an apartment </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">before.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> there is still the matter of the deposit and in this case is worth three months </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">rent.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> hard earned money that&#39;s not so easily </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">replaced.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> and so far the complaining to the landlord has done pretty much </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">squat.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> they listened to him for a week before going back to their old </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">ways.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> well not really, they&#39;ve&#160;gotten i </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">worse.&#160;</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">a simple bang on the wall used to get them to turn down the volume, now they only turn it up to spite </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">me.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> its enough to drive a person insane, to have to try to put up with something like this.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span><div style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 0.80em">	...so much for contractual stipulations and building rules.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span></div><span style="font-size: 0.80em">or maybe there really is some sort of leniency on those rules that is being practiced here by the landlord, who </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">dont</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> get me wrong seems like an okay </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">guy.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> but the neighbor being a foreigner must get him some sort of preferential treatment or that&#39;s the way it seems until a change is actually </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">made.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> i cant say if things will turn out well for him or </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">myself.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> keeping my anger and irritation in check is getting harder by the </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">incident.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> as for the neighbor, he and his buddies fancy themselves bad boy party animals or </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">something.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> they even went so far as to blast their music in the parking lot once, standing in a circle and talking ever so </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">loudly.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">i&#39;m</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> not sure if the people in the houses right across or even the other tenants in the building made </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">complaints.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> who exactly were they trying to impress there, themselves? don&#39;t know, don&#39;t </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">care.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> but their attitudes speak </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">volumes.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> they think they can do whatever they want and no one can stop </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">them.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> so who&#39;s to say what they might do themselves to retaliate for something as simple as a complaint.</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">	so in the unlikely event that there is some sort of divine intervention or a truly kind heart helps me out and covers for the deposit as well as a month or two worth of rent, </span><span style="font-size: 0.80em">i&#39;m</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"> stuck here for five more months...</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span><div style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 0.80em">	till then,</span><span style="font-size: 0.80em"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 0.80em">		&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;let the madness continue...</span><br /></div></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <p><span style="font-size: 0.80em">not&#160;one&#160;with&#160;much&#160;to&#160;do&#160;with&#160;words,&#160;why&#160;start&#160;a&#160;blog?&#160;<br />why&#160;else&#160;do&#160;people&#160;do&#160;it,&#160;to&#160;share&#160;a&#160;thought,&#160;an&#160;idea,&#160;experience&#160;or&#160;maybe&#160;simply&#160;to&#160;show&#160;something...<br />&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;for&#160;a&#160;start&#160;here&#39;s&#160;something&#160;that&#160;i&#39;d&#160;really&#160;appreciate&#160;if&#160;you&#160;took&#160;a&#160;looksee</p><p>&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;http://ryanan.deviantart.com/</p><p>not as&#160;good&#160;as&#160;others,&#160;but&#160;my&#160;work&#160;nonetheless.&#160;drop&#160;a&#160;line&#160;or&#160;three&#160;if&#160;you&#160;feel&#160;like&#160;it&#160;and&#160;thanks&#160;in&#160;advance.</span> <br /></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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